The Abundance of Love

It is better to give than to receive. This adage is written and practiced in almost every faith and religion. People can literally give the shirts off their backs and be disappointed when they end up in the poor house. Don’t be fooled by all this crap about giving and not receiving. It’s just a tactic that people use to trick you into giving them your money!
I’ve done everything from meditations, listening to CDs, even attending workshops all an attempt to attract abundance into my life. Sadly, the money in my pocket went from half full to empty in a span of a couple of years. Finally, I got fed up. And I began to understand that abundance is not really about having a great deal of money. It was about attracting a great deal of love.
Let’s face it. We live in a world where there’s limited resources. As far as I can tell, it’s always been that way. It started with the barter system, where everything was based on a trade. People traded crops for services and services for crops. However, the barter system got a little complicated, when people’s services or crops were no longer needed. Then, someone came up with the brilliant idea to create money, a currency system that enabled people to buy whatever they wanted. People started to provide their services and products for money.
Now, people can’t get the barter system out of their heads. When they go out and buy something. They want to get the best deal possible. They are looking for a bargain, a steal; the best deal money can buy. Why do people behave like this? Because they understand that resources are scarce and they have to get their money to stretch as far as possible.
Similarly, people have this same approach when it comes to love and relationships. They treat love like it’s a currency. They will give love, only when they know they are going to get love in return. We treat love as if it’s a currency, or some kind of stock option that we can lose money on. Then, we are disappointed when the people we love don’t do what we say, or don’t behave the way we would have liked them to behave. We treat love like it is some kind of investment. When it starts to tank. We want to toss away our love like it was some kind of cheap knock-off bag.
We are raised to believe that love is scarce. We are taught to believe that it is something that we have to work for. We have to work so hard to receive love from others because we believe that it is something that we have to earn. We give so much of ourselves. And lose the best parts of who we are in relationships. Because we believe that we have to make sacrifices in order to feel loved. We are always looking to make an exchange, and no one wants to get his or her heart broken. No one wants to be put at a disadvantage.
When we understand the true essence of love. We can then understand the love is the only resources in life that is abundant. Love can be blissful and everlasting when it comes from within. Self-love it the most powerful form of love. It is a zero risk transaction that is going to increase your bottom line. Because once you learn about self-love, you don’t have any more expectations. And you simply allow others to just be who and what they are.
We don’t have to lock our love down. Or treat love as if it is our last dollar in our pocket. Once we understand the true meaning of love, we can start to write love checks, as if we have billions of dollars in the bank. When we began to understand our true worth, we no longer look for others to fulfill our needs. Because we understand that no one can love us better than we can love ourselves. This is why people say that it is much better to give than to receive.
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